Haven’t had as much time to toil away online in recent months. Or, to be more honest, I’ve lacked the inclination. Too much time online for about 6 months there crisped my brain and this older monitor scorches my eyes (no offense to the friend that loaned it to me – it certainly beats having no monitor at all). Instead of puttering around on here, I’ve been out socializing with new people and hanging around at the local pub. And volunteering occasionally. And watching documentaries and movies. Haven’t been reading much lately either, aside from while out to dinner.
The degree certificate arrived in the mail yesterday so I’m finally able to exhale and accept that indeed the B.S. degree is completed. I was waiting for the adviser to call me up saying that she had made some sort of mistake and that I’d need to take one more class in order to graduate. That’s my luck, so it’s best not to get too excited until the proof is handed to me in writing. And that proof finally arrived! Yay! Done at last! That is, until I return to school for a higher degree someday…
There are so many topics I’d like to write about on here, but they always come to me while busy with other matters. Now that I’m seated in front of the computer, not much comes to mind. Oh, I’ve been following the automaker bailouts and heard about China’s new domestic stimulus plan, but what is there to say about this? Didn’t we see this coming? I won’t be surprised if Boeing decides to be next in line for government welfare dollars. The state of California, one of the supposedly richest states in the union, seemed to think it was entitled to a cut. (Kind of makes you wonder how a state like Mississippi with a 7.9% unemployment rate and a devastated coastline hasn’t received a mention.)
I’ve read the articles on Obama from various sides and all the speculation on what his presidency might bring to America. As far as I can tell, he’s not bringing anything really worthwhile and different to the table and in fact appears to be the true neoconservative choice.
I’ve read about Citigroup laying off 53,000 more people and am concerned about the blow my community might eventually be dealt. There isn’t a stock out there I would confidently stand behind at this juncture.
Wells Fargo appears to be doing considerably well in spite of the financial forecast. Funny how that works, isn’t it? One minute everyone assumes we’re relatively stable economically, then the next the media is reporting pandemonium. These tactics seem to be geared to scare the snot out of the average American, which stands in stark contrast with the post-9/11 speech from Bush encouraging us to spend more money. I’m not convinced these two episodes aren’t related. Either way, at the end of the day you can bet your bottom dollar that average Americans will be the ones blamed for whatever is to come. Because we’ll either not spend enough or be chastised for spending too much on credit we shouldn’t have been granted in the first place. It’s a sad state of affairs.
But on a brighter, personal note…life is looking up over here. An old client came back to apologize for ditching me back in spring and compensated me for my loss in wages. That was kind of him. We’ve been speaking via email and phone for the last couple of months and finally this past week I agreed to meet with him in person to chat. We’re not certain of the status of our relationship from here on out, but I appreciate him coming forward to apologize and right previous wrongs. He spooked back then, and I can understand why, but the timing couldn’t have been worse. Now that this is behind us, we can return to friendly relations.
A very good friend recently paid me great compliments, so I’m feeling pretty good right about now. And while a guy from the bar who I’ve befriended accidentally ticked me off the other day, I’m willing to let it go and move forward in getting to know one another. He couldn’t have predicted my hormonally-induced rage or disdain for brightly-lit sports bars. Hehe
Oh, and a dog I’ve been caring for just refuses to give me a chance, so I’ve resigned on that task. Being bitten by a toy dog doesn’t sound like much fun, though I wish it could have worked out. That marks the first time a dog has taken issue with me, growling and snapping as I tried to put his leash on. But I suppose some animals are that way and will never be too keen on strangers. It happens. We gave it a good chance over 3 separate visits, but she just doesn’t want anything to do with me. So I referred them on to others who may be able to help.
I’ve decided to go ahead and try to stay on in this apartment for part of December, unbeknownst to my landlord just yet, since he hasn’t felt the need to put anything in writing and I need a little more time. The move should be much easier since it will be local and I have a couple of guys to help out. Might not need to sell as much of my furniture since transport won’t be such an expensive chore. But detaching myself from my stuff emotionally was a good exercise that may prove useful for future moves. There’s no need in holding on to everything and becoming a packrat, and I’ve done better with this over the years. But there’s also no need in selling items that I’ll only need at the next place either. It looks like I’ll continue living alone, which is probably for the best since my home is my fortress for recharging my batteries and self-expression. Probably would be difficult to find someone compatible to live with me anyhow, considering how quirky I can be and all. lol
Well, I have an appointment to go to now. Perhaps I’ll be able to write more later.
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Slag Zombie said
My wife and I had a similar situation with a dog we took in that had been abused by the previous owner. No matter what we did the dog would still bite us. My wife was even a dog trainer at the time and we still couldn’t correct his behavior. In the end we found a lady that was willing to take him despite his “issues”. As for moving and departing with material possessions, it’s a tricky business, more than once I’ve thrown out something only to buy it again later. Before my wife and I got together, I never had a roommate. Although it costs more and can get lonely at times, I doubt anyone but my wife could stand to live with me. Best of luck with the new place and the (possibly) new relationship.
wakemenow said
Thanks for the luck wishes, but I’m not getting into any new relationships other than camaraderie with a bar buddy and that has no romantic future. The other guys are old friends/clients, one of which I’m getting back into contact with. Just for clarification.
Thankfully that wasn’t my dog but just one I was caring for while the owner was away. Such a snippety little thing with the most vicious snarl for her size. She’s spoiled beyond belief by her family and I’d say it’s doubtful she’s ever been subjected to abuse.
Someday I hope to meet someone capable of living with me too. lol But I’m set in my ways, overly talkative, and actually rather private in some respects. Plus my cats destroy everything and my rats freak people out. Not having to share a bathroom and limited cabinet space with another person is a true blessing too.